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The Digital Shield

Protect your child from online predators, sextortion, and AI fakes. Straight talk and simple steps for families with kids ages 6 to 17, plus a one-page plan for the first hour if something goes wrong.

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The Digital Shield

A Parent's Guide to Protecting Your Child from Online Predators, Sextortion, and AI Fakes
BY KELLY MORTENSEN2026 EDITION

Is something happening right now? If a child is in immediate danger, call 911. Report sextortion or exploitation to NCMEC at report.cybertip.org or 1-800-843-5678, 24/7. Do not pay, and do not delete anything.

Why this matters

It doesn't look like a stranger in a chat room anymore.

Online predators usually pose as a peer: another kid, a fellow gamer, a friendly teen from a nearby town. They're patient, flattering, and sometimes very fast.

1 in 3

kids and teens surveyed said someone they only knew online asked them for explicit images. More than half of those requests came within the first day.

DHS Know2Protect (2025), citing Thorn
137/day

average financial sextortion reports NCMEC received each day in 2025, a 37% increase from the year before.

NCMEC CyberTipline Data (2025)
400K+

CyberTipline reports in 2025 involved generative AI in some way. A child no longer has to send a photo to be targeted.

NCMEC CyberTipline Data (2025)
Any app

Sextortion can start on any site, app, messaging platform, or game where people meet and talk.

FBI IC3 Annual Report (2025)
What's inside

Everything a parent needs, in 14 plain-English pages.

No scare tactics and no tech jargon. Just how predators really operate, what to watch for, and exactly what to do.

Part 1 · Start here

How grooming really works

The five-step pattern offenders follow, and the single biggest red flag to teach your kids.

Part 1 · Know the threat

Sextortion, in plain English

The two common versions, who gets targeted, and why the child is always the victim.

Part 1 · The new risk

AI fakes and the TAKE IT DOWN Act

"Nudify" apps, deepfake blackmail, and how the new federal law forces platforms to remove images in 48 hours.

Part 2 · Notice

Warning signs to watch for

Behavior changes and online money signs, plus how to open a calm conversation.

Part 2 · Where

The apps and the settings that help

Games, chat apps, and social media: where contact starts and which settings to change today.

Part 3 · Act

The First-Hour Plan

A one-page checklist for the moment something goes wrong: protect evidence the right way, report it, and get images removed.

Part 4 · Talk

What to say, by age

Ready-to-use conversation starters for young kids, tweens, and teens.

Printable

Family Tech Agreement

Read it together, sign it, and post it on the fridge. Plus the family code word idea.

Part 5 · Set up

Home setup that actually works

Device controls, Wi-Fi filtering, strong sign-ins, and oversight without spying.

The heart of the guide

Settings reduce risk. Trust is what gets kids to tell you.

Offenders count on kids being too scared or ashamed to speak up. The guide shows you how to take that weapon away, starting with one simple promise your family can make out loud.

If you come to me because something went wrong online, even if you made a mistake, I will stay calm. You will not be punished for telling me. We will fix it together.
THE "NO PUNISHMENT FOR TELLING" PROMISE
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  • A First-Hour Plan you can follow under pressure
  • Conversation scripts for ages 6 to 17
  • A printable Family Tech Agreement
  • Every hotline and reporting site on one page

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About the author

Kelly Mortensen

Kelly is the founder and CEO of Digital Plains, a managed IT and cybersecurity firm in Fargo, ND and Detroit Lakes, MN. Before founding Digital Plains, Kelly spent years in enterprise IT at organizations including Deere & Company and DaimlerChrysler. Kelly wrote The Digital Shield to give local families the same clear, practical security thinking that businesses rely on.

Author, Your Business Will Get HackedAmazon bestsellerRegional tech summit speaker
Questions

Good to know

Is the guide really free?

Yes. No credit card, no catch. Enter your email and the PDF is sent to you.

Who is it for?

Parents, grandparents, and guardians of kids ages 6 to 17. Teachers, coaches, counselors, and youth leaders find it useful too.

Can I share it with my school, church, or PTA?

Please do. You may print and share the guide for non-commercial use.

Is this legal or mental health advice?

No. The guide is for general education. If a child is being exploited or threatened, contact law enforcement and NCMEC first: call 911 in an emergency, or report at report.cybertip.org or 1-800-843-5678.

Why is an IT company writing about this?

Digital Plains protects businesses from cybercriminals every day, and many of the same tricks are being used on kids. We'd rather share what we know than watch families learn it the hard way.

Ten minutes today can change everything

Give your family a plan before you ever need one.

Download The Digital Shield, read it this weekend, and have the first conversation at dinner.

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This guide is for general education only. It is not legal, medical, or mental health advice. Digital Plains is not a law enforcement agency and cannot investigate crimes. If a child is being exploited or threatened, contact law enforcement and NCMEC first. If someone is in emotional distress, call or text 988. Product and app names in the guide are neutral examples; Digital Plains has no affiliation with any company named. © 2026 Digital Plains LLC.